With Valentine’s Day just around the corner, there’s a fair chance that you’ve come up with or are looking for ideas for what to do with your partner. Something sexy, perhaps? A massage with essential oil may be exactly what you’re looking for – affordable, intimate, special.
So why not just a massage? Why essential oils? Besides the fact that it makes massages go much smoother, some essential oils are aphrodisiacs, making it the perfect choice for an incredibly romantic night. Some of my personal favorites include:
- Organic Sweet Almond Oil – light and absorbent, this oil is necessary to carry the essential oils and also nourishes and hydrates skin.
- Organic Ylang Yiang Oil – as one of the most powerful aphrodisiacs, it increases libido, energy, and eroticism
- Organic Bergamot Oil – exciting and rejuvenating
- Organic Jasmine Oil – lifts mood and creates energy; its erogenous effect has been used to treat premature ejaculation
How to give the Perfect Massage
You start by warming the oil – running the bottle under hot water will do fine – and then pouring it so it pools on your partner’s back. Before you start, communicate with your partner – ask them where it hurts, what’s tense. This is a time to make it about them. Talk to them, and reassure them that all of their tension will be released. Make sure they are in the most optimal position before you start. It’s actually better if they keep their arms by their side rather than use them to make a pillow for their head.
Tuning into their pain, push into their muscles with one hand on top of the other, letting your grip slide in the oil across their back. Allow the oil to guide you. Let its aroma inspire you, and make sure it does the same for your partner. The oil is truly the key to a good massage, because it will allow you to make smoother motions. If your partner is very tense, it will help decrease any pain when tackling the tensest areas. Let the pain melt away; prepare their body for the best night of your lives.
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